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Couples Counselling
Having healthy relationships is a skill you can learn. Some people learn how to manage relationships early in life and some people learn much later. No matter when you learn, improving your relationship will change the quality of your life.
By having the tools to know what to do when things get difficult in relationships can provide enormous relief for people who are drowning in resentment and psychological pain.
My role is to give you these tools to help you re-establish what you both need to improve your current relationship. Your role is to implement the tools and keep practicing how to have these deeper, difficult conversations until you strengthen your relationship with what you have learnt. Eventually these learnt skills become automatic and integrated into your new way of thinking and relationship competency.
Trauma
I work with a lot of couples and individuals who have experienced Trauma. Past trauma can get locked inside any of us. Anyone who experiences prolonged fear, regret, shame or feelings of worthlessness are often confused about how to lift these negative feelings. We use Parts Therapy to understand those parts of us that can eclipse our happiness. I provide a systemic model to help relieve this confusion and stablise our thinking and therefore our emotional world. Understanding why we feel this way and how to manage these difficulties is a very empowering process.
Always choose a therapist that is registered with an Australian Association to ensure your they have the relevant training and qualifications to help you through your issues.
Also FULLY VACCINATED.
Please note that I find 1.5 hours is the ideal time required for the first few sessions to help us gain some perspective and progress from a Therapeutic perspective.
Online Couples and Individuals are charged the same fee as face to face clients
Couples and individuals often leave it so long to get help and find themselves deeply resentful and hurt after years of neglect. This constant psychological stress is very damaging to our mental and physical health. Within all romantic relationships we have expectations and it can be devastating when things go wrong. Resentment will start to outweigh the kindness, the care and support we had at the beginning.
Couples are in a dance of connection and disconnection. During long periods of disconnection it may be hard to find our way back to re-connect. As a couples therapist it is my role to help each partner come back to a place they feel safe enough to re-connect. We get into a negative cycle of interaction and together we need to develop a new approach of interaction. It is important to realise however that relationship competency requires both people in the relationship to be motivated to change.
What happens when you arrive?
You will fill out a consent form to ensure we have all the information needed to proceed. Often this is emailed to you beforehand to save time. To save time in the session you can download the form and send it prior to your session.
" Thank you for all your help last year. We are in a much better space at the moment and better than we have been for a very long time." Anonymous
"Thanks Diana, definitely got a lot out of our first session." Anne and partner.
"Thanks Diana for sharing this amazing information, so clever the way you sum things up" Susie and Husband
"We just can't get this level of service in the regional areas, we have to come to Newcastle to see you because it's not available elsewhere" Mr and Mrs S
There are plenty of side streets to park in so you won't have to walk far. If you have a disability you can park across the driveway in front of the Thrive Wellness Hub so you won't need to walk. Robert Street Wickham is a dead end street so there is limited parking however most of my clients seem to find a park in the street. All staff park away from Robert Street to make room for clients.
I started my career teaching adults in the mid 90s and worked my way towards Professional Coaching for people in the workplace. As I was coaching individuals I noticed most people struggle with relationships, all types of relationships. They struggled with their work relationships but also their personal relationships.
I needed more knowledge to help my clients so I did a Post Graduate degree in Counselling to compliment my undergraduate Degree in Human Behavior. I then specialised in Couples or Relationship Counselling which is where I am able to support others to reconnect with their partner, if both people put the work in required to change their relationship.
My point of difference is my absolute passion to help every single person. My work is personal. Helping people with their most important relationship is an honour. For me this role Is more of a calling than a job.
I strive for results so as others can find some peace when they have struggled with psychological pain.
To move forward clients should expect that they will be asked to consider another perspective. That the way things are being processed when they come to therapy may be maladaptive and need adjustments. Acceptance that we are at least part of the problem is an important lesson.
Taking responsibility was one of the most important lessons I have learnt in my own life. Once you own your own part of each issue (assuming it is a relational issue) your world becomes a little easier to handle.
Taking responsibility is about knowing we all carry around our own narrative (our story) and that is our belief. A willingness to see that others have a different truth is when the work begins.
We are all wired differently and when we can see our own impact on others we begin to repair.
Life long learning is a requirement of therapists to continually improve their skill set. Every person requires a customised plan to help them with their particular issue/s and by continually learning I am able to offer the most up to date modalities that will suit clients individual needs.
I believe I have combined my adult educator role with my therapist role when I am working with individuals or couples. I keep every person in the room accountable for their actions and combine compassion with therapeutic education so they can find some answers. My methods are not suited to those who are looking to gain validation that they are always right however my methods are suited to those who are willing to understand why things are not working.
My accountability approach works for people who truly want to improve, who are willing to do the work to get things back on track.
If I could convey any message to clients it would be that the mind body connections are very under estimated in our culture. How we process emotional stress and pain has a direct correlation to our physical health. Be very careful before you hang on to anger and stress, it will manifest in your body if not processed correctly.
Please note: Healthy anger and rage are two very different emotions. We all have anger at times.
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